. www.sacredwomancollective.com www.DesertHealthNews.com May/June 2026 Natural Options The Valley's Leading Resource for Health and Wellness 8 Curated circles, gatherings and retreats for women drawn to connection, reflection, and community Visit SacredWomanCollective.com to learn more. (760) 485-3433 alison@sacredwomancollective.com sacredwomancollective Alison Mullins, IPHM International Practitioners of Holistic Medicine “Holding space” has become a familiar phrase in today’s wellness conversations, often described as new or “alternative.” In reality, it reflects a long-standing human practice rooted in connection, observation and presence. Across cultures and throughout history, people have gathered to listen, witness, grieve and celebrate together. What we now call “holding space” is not a new concept, but a return to these fundamental ways of relating. At its core, holding space is the act of being fully present with another person without attempting to fix, change or direct their experience. It involves active listening, non-judgmental awareness and emotional attunement. In clinical and behavioral health settings, similar principles are reflected in patient-centered care, therapeutic presence and empathetic listening—all of which have been shown to improve emotional well-being and strengthen interpersonal trust. Holding space can take many forms. It may be as simple as listening without interruption, maintaining eye contact or just sitting in silence with someone. It may also include forms of nourishment and support that convey care and safety. In this context, nourishment extends beyond nutrition; it includes the quality of attention we offer, the tone of our presence and the way we acknowledge another person’s experience. Research in social and emotional health suggests that feeling seen and understood can significantly impact stress levels, resilience and overall well-being. Despite its simplicity, holding space can feel challenging. When someone is experiencing grief, loss or uncertainty, there is often a natural impulse to solve the problem or offer advice. Or, if someone else’s situation feels beyond our understanding, we may choose to withdraw altogether. However, absence from others, especially during times of distress, can leave those affected feeling isolated. Individuals in distress are often not seeking solutions, but rather connection. A calm, steady presence can help regulate emotional responses and create a sense of safety, even when the situation itself cannot be changed. Holding space is equally relevant in moments of joy. Supporting another person’s positive emotional state, without comparison or minimization, reinforces connection and strengthens relationships. The ability to fully witness both difficulty and joy reflects emotional flexibility, a key component of mental and relational health. Importantly, the practice of holding space also extends inward. To hold space for oneself is to develop self-awareness without immediate judgment or reaction. Mindfulness-based approaches, widely supported in research, emphasize observing thoughts and emotions without attachment or avoidance. This internal form of holding space can improve emotional regulation, reduce stress and enhance overall well-being. In a culture increasingly shaped by digital communication and constant stimulation, the practice of holding space offers a counterbalance. While technology allows for continuous connection, it often lacks the depth and presence that human nervous systems rely on for true regulation and support. Holding space reintroduces that depth. It is not dependent on having the right words or solutions. Rather, it is grounded in presence, attention and the willingness to remain with another person—or oneself—through both ease and difficulty. In this way, holding space is both timeless and timely: a simple, evidence-supported practice that reconnects us to how we are naturally wired to relate, support and heal. Alison Mullins is a holistic health coach accredited by the International Practitioners of Holistic Medicine (IPHM). She is the founder of Coppermoon and owner of the Sacred Woman Collective Coachella Valley Branch and can be reached at alison@coppermoonrising.com or (760) 485.3433. www.coppermoonrising.com. Holding Space An ancient practice with modern relevance By Alison Mullins, IPHM Have you ever drooled on your pillow while dreaming of dining? You may have experienced a healing food dream. It begs the question, "Why did I eat what I ate in my dream, and what does it mean?" Remembering dreams of food can improve our lives. If we are what we eat, then food has been a source of healing, health and wellness since prehistoric humans drew on cave walls to share dreamy food stories. Now, interpretations abound in medical publications such as Psychology Today,² a large variety of books, podcasts and more. When I was undergoing treatment for breast cancer, I had the strangest healing food dream. I was anemic from chemo and deficient in calcium and vitamins. In my dream, a Franciscan monk walked up to me and said, “Eat dandelions.” I answered, “You want me to eat weeds?” My research showed that dandelions are superfoods rich in vitamins A, C and K, as well as calcium, iron and potassium. They also contain antioxidants that help protect against cell damage from chemotherapy and other toxins. Every part of the plant, from root to flower, is edible and has long been used as medicine.³ I boiled the stems and leaves, sautéed them, and made delicious dandelion tea from the water. What a weed. And what a dream! Although dreams often use signs and symbols to communicate, my literal dream used words.º Remembering foods that appear in our dreams can help us form new eating habits that embrace good food, not just good taste. Food patterns may take root in our subconscious, creating a healthier circle of life celebrated in our dreams. This is called dreamwork. Unresolved issues may result in unhealthy eating habits and choices. Emotional eating can carry over into our dreams, which are a microcosm of our waking world. Dreamwork enables us to explore life-altering scenarios and discover solutions to enhance our lives. Tonight, write your food-related dream intention in your dream journal. Upon waking, take time to recollect your dreams if you can. If you don’t remember your nighttime dreams, pay attention to your daydreams, which can also relay missed messages. It has been thousands of years since early humans drew on caves, yet today, we don’t need handprints on walls to guide us; we have oneirology, the scientific study of dreams, which is opening up a growing field of dream interpretation. Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos of Rancho Mirage is a dream expert, cancer survivor, author, speaker and TV/radio host/producer. She has been featured on Dr. Oz and The Doctors and her new award-winning book, Dreams That Can Save Your Life, is now available. For more information, visit www.KathleenOkeefeKanavos.com. References: 1) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-wisdom-your-dreams/201101/eating-in-dreams; 2) https://learningenglish. voanews.com/a/dandelions-one-of-the-healthiest-foods-on-the-planet-/4895704.html; 3) Dreams That Can Save Your Life: Early Warning Signs of Cancer and Other Diseases; by Larry Burk M.D. C.E.H.P., Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos Findhorn Press – April 17, 2018 Chapter 5, pg 49-50. 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