AUGUST/SEPTEMBER 2026 | 29 Sanders writes the way many women talk with their closest friends— candidly, humorously and without apology. She tackles the physical and emotional realities of midlife with refreshing honesty, making readers feel less alone in the process. Many will nd themselves nodding in recognition as she describes familiar experiences. At one point, the 46-year-old writes: “We do not care if it (sex) takes three minutes. No complaints here. In fact, let’s go for two and a half.” e joke lands because it re ects a broader truth. Beneath the humor is a message about giving ourselves permission to stop chasing impossible standards and instead extending a little grace to ourselves. e book also addresses the realities of perimenopause and menopause that rarely receive honest discussion. “We do not care if you had a long day. So did we. Our day included brain fog, night sweats, insomnia, frozen shoulder and rage,” she shared from one day’s agenda. Sanders also o ers practical advice for the partners of women experiencing these changes. Her husband, a ectionately known as “Big O,” contributes a chapter of his own that provides a male perspective on navigating menopause alongside a spouse. Other insights in “Notes from the Menoposse” are o ered by such contributors as makeup mogul Bobbi Brown, menopause specialists and medical experts. Each chapter also includes a “Real Talk with Melani” section. A curated music playlist adds another layer of personality to the book. e We Do Not Care Club isn’t really about not caring. It’s about caring more selectively—recognizing that time and emotional bandwidth are nite resources and deciding they deserve to be spent on what matters most. Especially for those women who have spent decades juggling careers with caring for children, spouses, aging parents, friends and everyone else’s expectations—this message feels both timely and liberating. Funny, relatable and surprisingly insightful, this New York Times bestseller is more than a collection of jokes and social media posts. Beneath the humor lies a reminder many women need to hear: Sometimes the healthiest thing we can do is stop caring about the wrong things and start caring more about ourselves. Follow Sanders @justbeingmelani on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook and YouTube, or visit www.wedonotcareclub.com. Leo July 23 - Aug. 22 Your gi for peacemaking is in full force. However, now may not be the time to smooth things over with family. Real feelings need to be expressed and addressed, not swept aside for the sake of harmony. Virgo Aug. 23 - Sept. 22 Your attention to detail has become one of your greatest strengths. Right now, though, it may be time to ease up and let others contribute. Teamwork is essential to your project, and a little exibility will go a long way. Libra Sept. 23 - Oct. 22 Your career goals are top of mind, making this the perfect time to take action. Find a mentor, enroll in a class or volunteer your time to help others. Progress requires e ort, and the momentum is on your side. Scorpio Oct. 23 - Nov. 21 Summer is here, so get outside and soak up the sunshine. Opportunities abound to enjoy the company of others and share memorable experiences, both near and far. Be sure to capture the moments worth remembering. Sagittarius Nov. 22 - Dec. 21 Romance is within reach. No one says you have to leap in immediately, but know that success is likely if you choose to pursue it. With that kind of power comes responsibility, so take care not to hurt anyone along the way. Capricorn Dec. 22 - Jan. 19 Parties? What parties? You’re feeling especially social these days, and your friends are ready to celebrate with you. e sun is shining, the weather is warm and the possibilities are everywhere. Make the most of it. Aquarius Jan. 20 - Feb. 18 Homelife may feel a bit turbulent lately. Emotions are running high, and changes around the house seem to be coming from every direction. Whether you’re coping through tears or tackling a project with a hammer, do your best to stay calm. Pisces Feb. 19 - March 20 is is a wonderful time to connect with children. If you have kids, carve out time to simply enjoy being together. If you don’t, you may nd yourself considering the possibility. Either way, meaningful conversations could be on the horizon. Aries March 21 - April 19 Financial concerns may have been weighing on you recently. Set aside time to review your situation and create a new plan for the family. e road may be tight for a while, but success is still within reach. Taurus April 20 - May 20 It’s the perfect time for a heart-to-heart conversation with a loved one. Too much time has passed without addressing lingering hurts or misunderstandings. Nothing can be resolved unless someone takes the rst step. Gemini May 21 - June 21 Romantic energy surrounds you. You’re especially appealing right now, so prepare for cozy dinners and meaningful connections. Take advantage of opportunities to get out, enjoy the sunshine and meet someone new. Cancer June 22 - July 22 Romantic possibilities may be developing at work, but proceed with caution. Workplace con dences should remain private until the relationship becomes more established. For now, keep things light and enjoy the irtation. AUGUST/SEPTEMBER 2026 CASHMIRA’S STARGUIDE “We do not care if you had a long day. So did we. Our day included brain fog, night sweats, insomnia, frozen shoulder and rage.”
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