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Our array of hospice services provides comfort and care physically, emotionally and spiritually. Locally owned in the Coachella Valley ICU nurse owned On call 24/7 We are here to answer your questions 24/7 (760) 565-1774 TSH@tranquilitysandshospice.com 100% covered by insurance 74333 Highway 111, Suite 204 • Palm Desert tranquilitysandshospice.com Setting the Standard for Quality Care and Comfort Call to schedule a free evaluation Serving Desert Cities and surrounding areas including: Idyllwild, Mountain Center, Twentynine Palms, and Salton Sea Accredited with the Accreditation Commission for Health Care Licensed by the State of California Certified by Medicare/Medi-Cal Sarah, 78, a retired sociology professor who was married for 42 years, became a widow a year ago when her husband, Jim, unexpectedly passed away. Their son lives far away and often travels for work. Sarah, who is shy and prefers to be alone, now finds herself struggling with her grief and is overwhelmed with having to make all the routine decisions on her own. Brian, 62, a mechanical engineer, never married and had no significant other. He liked his freedom to see the world and would stay abroad for months at a time. He belonged to international business organizations and managed his personal finances well. However, recently Brian started to feel ill. His primary care physician had him do a series of blood tests, which revealed that he had cancer and would require a series of treatments. Tom, 85, is a family caregiver for his wife Joan, who has advanced dementia. While technically not alone, he often feels isolated as he struggles to manage caregiving responsibilities, household duties, medical appointments and his own declining health. Three different situations. One thing in common. They are all aging solo. According to the Pew Research Center, millions of aging adults are having challenges that can feel overwhelming at times––especially when facing them without a traditional support system.³ Whether due to a loss of a spouse, divorce, lack of family nearby or caring for a partner with significant physical or cognitive limitations, many people today are finding themselves aging solo. The good news is that aging solo does not have to mean aging alone. Here are important things to consider: • Build a network of support. This can be family, trusted friends, neighbors or members of your faith community. • Maintain social connections either online or in person. Combat loneliness by joining clubs, fitness groups or community activities. Volunteering or taking educational classes can help develop meaningful relationships and create a reliable circle of support. • Make technology your friend. Video calls, medical alert systems, medication reminders and smart home devices can add convenience, safety and connection. Valley senior centers are a good resource for classes and assistance to help you learn. • Hire a senior advocate. This growing industry offers seniors a helping hand in a broad scope of areas. As certified professionals, they offer assistance, assurance and peace of mind for those navigating life alone in their later years. There are significant challenges to aging solo. Remember that planning ahead and asking for assistance is not a sign of weakness; it's a sign of wisdom. Kim Linder is a family caregiver coach, geriatric care manager, certified dementia practitioner and long-term care claims professional. She is the founder of Senior Holistic Care Advocates and can be reached at kim@seniorholisticcare.com or (760) 969.0700. www.seniorholisticcareadvocates.com. Reference: 1) https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2026/02/26/family-caregiving-in-an-aging-america/ Aging Solo: You Don't Have to Go It Alone By Kim Linder, CSA, GCM, CDP, LTCCP And that's the part no one talks about enough. The pivot is rarely graceful; it’s messy, confusing, uncomfortable. It can feel like standing between chapters—no longer who you were, but not yet certain of who you're becoming. I know because I've lived it. And perhaps you're living it, too. If so, please hear this: You are not behind or broken. You do not need to have everything figured out. Some of the most courageous people I know are not the ones with all the answers, but the ones willing to sit in the uncertainty long enough to hear their own truth. Mindfulness teaches us that every moment offers information. Our thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, stress signals and intuitive nudges are constantly communicating with us. The challenge isn't receiving the message; the challenge is being with it and slowing down long enough to hear it. So, if you find yourself in a season of transition, consider this your reminder: You do not need to rush your next move. You do not need to force clarity. You do not need to panic because you don't yet know what's next. Sometimes the most powerful move you can make is not forward, or backward. It's becoming still enough to listen. Because often, the clarity you're seeking isn't found by pushing harder. It's found in the spacious pause before the pivot. Christy Curtis is a transformational wellness educator and coach and founder of Grounded Joy Wellness. She can be reached at christycurtiswellness@gmail.com. www.groundedjoywellness.org. The Pause Before the Pivot Continued from page 11
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